存在,叫做sadism也就是施虐,我确信sm中s就是这个词的缩写。
那么sadism和sadist施虐和施虐者是怎么定义的呢?照抄一段大英百科全书中的定义,我想应该足够权威了:
sadism:psychosexualdisorderinwhichsexualurgesaregratifiedbytheinfliofpainonanotherpersonthetermwasedbythete19th-turygermanpsychologistrichardvonkrafft-ebinginrefereothemarquisdesade,an18th-turyfrenanwhoicledhisownsuchpracticessadismisoftenmasochism(qv),inwhichsexualarousalresultsfromreceivingpain,andmanyindividualsrespondiherrolethesadist,however,oftenseeksavictimwhoisnotamasochist,assomeofthesexualexcitementderivesfromthevictimsunwillingnessthelevelaentofsadisticlencemayvarysiderably,frominfliofmildpaininotherwiseharmlesslovepytoextremebrutality,somimesleadingtoseusinjuryordeaththesatisfaofthesadistmayresultnotfrominfligactualphysicalpainbutratherfromthementalsufferingofthevictimsexualurgesmaylimittheleveloflence,butinsomecasestheaggressiveimpulsebeespredominantandthesadistprogressestomoreextremeexpresnsofhislenttendenciessadismmaybeafactorinsomelentcrimes,particurlyrapeandmurder
简单的翻译一下,没有字字对译:
施虐是指通过给他人施加痛苦而达到性满足,这个词因萨德侯爵而来,与因接受痛苦而唤起性兴奋的受虐相对应。然而,施虐狂经常会寻找一些并非受虐狂的人来做施虐的对象,因为他们的某些性兴奋正是来自于对方的不情愿。施虐造成的伤害差别很大,从**游戏中轻微无害的疼痛到极端暴力,有时导致严重伤害或死亡。施虐狂得到满足也许不是**上施加痛楚而是受害者精神上遭受折磨。性表达也许局限于某种程度的暴力,但有时攻击性占有欲太强,而导致极端的暴力倾向。施虐可能是某些暴力罪案发生的因素,特别是强奸和谋杀。